Doing so will empower your ex again, making you a fool to be messed with.

When your ex comes crying back to you for forgiveness and promises changes, you cannot by any means accept your ex back right away. How do I get my ex back when he or she wants me then? You donвЂ™t want to let go of that candy when your ex wants it. But once those satisfying, yet powerful emotions wear off, your ex will subconsciously think, вЂњthis was as easy as taking candy from a baby.вЂќ Sure, your ex will feel relieved and happy at first. Suddenly that $100 bill becomes worthless to you as it canвЂ™t buy you anything anymore.Д«ut one thing that wonвЂ™t be respected is how fast you let your ex back in. ItвЂ™s like taking a $100 bill and dipping it in a bucket of paint. Without any value, there is no attraction. This sort of behavior increased your exвЂ™s self-image, and most importantly, decreased yours. Because youвЂ™ve most likely committed some of the post-breakup mistakes, youвЂ™ve unknowingly (and unfortunately) inflated your exвЂ™s ego and made him or her feel too good about things. LetвЂ™s say youвЂ™ve always been pretty amazing and now after all this time apart, youвЂ™ve become an alpha male/female.

YouвЂ™ve put in blood, sweat, and tears to craft yourself into a highly desirable person. Presumably, you are the dumpee and have worked hard to become the best version of yourself that you can possibly be. My ex wants me so why should I care about that? I strongly advise you to refrain from screaming hysterically, вЂњYay, my ex wants me back!вЂќ I will explain why further on. This is crucial for you to understand since it could be the deciding factor in whether you can have a stable relationship with this person if you decide to reconcile. Without giving any thought about why things happened the way they did and actively trying to fix them, your ex remains on the same level of emotional intelligence that he or she was on prior to the breakup.

Tell me now what more do you need